Author(s): Robert Weiss
I don't have a problem. Having a lot of sex is just what gay guys do... right?
Conflicting messages abound for gay men regarding sex. Broadly speaking, gay male culture places less emphasis on monogamy and fidelity than straight culture while offering more extensive opportnities for casual/anonymous sex. For most gay men, this is't a problem. But for some the temptations can become all consuming. Rather than liberating gay men, these social senes can actually imprison them. When lying, secrecy, escalation, the resulting negative consequences and out of control sexual behaviour become commonplace, it's time to seek help.
Robert Weiss, LCSW, CSAT-S, is director of sexual disorders services for Elements Behavioral Health and founding director of The Sexual Recovery Institute, an outpatient sexual addiction treatment center in Los Angeles, California. His media appearances include ESPN, The Discovery Channel, the Todayshow, The Oprah Winfrey Show, Anderson Cooper 360°, and Dateline NBC.